Sunday, May 31, 2015

Diagnosis Update

Hi folks.

Last Wednesday (5/27), we met with doctors at the UW Medical Center to hear the results of Brian's biopsy.  There was hard news and hopeful news.  In the spirit of our approach to this whole experience, we're choosing to stay positive. As Yoda says, "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering."  We're choosing love and light and positivity.

The hard news: Brian's tumor was diagnosed as brain cancer. It is a grade 3 tumor (on a scale of aggressiveness from 2 - 4).

·         Note! Please be careful in Googling brain tumors in general as there are lots and lots that all act differently.  Keep in mind, as one doctor told us, Brian's brain tumor is unique to only him and the names/grades/statistics are simply categories.

The hopeful news: Of the grade 3 tumors, research shows that Brian's is one that can respond to treatment. Due to the location of the tumor, it is not surgically removable. The goal is to stabilize or shrink it so that the tumor stops growing and Brian can continue as himself. The tumor will always have to be tracked.  We have an amazing team of doctors working for and with us at UW and Seattle Cancer Care Alliance and we are incredibly confident in their abilities.

The plan: The doctors have a very clear plan for us.  We are looking at about a year of treatment. He will have 6 weeks of radiation starting within 2 weeks, a 4 week break, and then up to 3 rounds of 4-6 week chemotherapy treatments.

Support: We will need you! We will need your continued positivity, hopes, thoughts, prayers and messages. We will need rides to the doctor, food (in moderation) and visits in the backyard. We are so thankful for the wide net of support we have, and although we may not have returned your emails yet, we deeply appreciate your thoughts and words.  We are really lucky people and you fill us with love.

Follow Brian on Instagram! Link here: https://instagram.com/b.tracy22/

Lots of love to all of you,


Kim and Brian

Stirring the Pot: Volume 3

A quick introduction: Stirring the Pot was born in 2008 (as Volume 1) when Kim and Brian decided to mix it up and travel/volunteer in Peru and Bolivia for about five months. Our amazing family and friends wanted to follow our adventures, so we obliged and posted photos and stories from our travels.

Volume 2 was launched in 2010 to serve as our wedding website and get the family and friends prepped for that epic weekend in Oregon. Damn! That was a good party and wedding.

Now we have decided to re-launch Stirring the Pot as Volume 3. The current setting: Kim is pregnant with the first Kimybrian offspring, lovingly referred to by the nickname "Brim." He or she is set to make an appearance in November 2015. Brian has just recently been diagnosed with a serious disease and has a long road of treatment ahead.

What has not changed throughout the volumes is our amazing network of family and friends that care so much about us. We have received an absolutely humbling amount of love and support in the last couple weeks. We will use Volume 3 to update you all on our progress and may use it as a way to request support when needed. While we have very much appreciated all the emails and Facebook messages, we think it would be easier for us to manage this blog and have all your messages in one place. Please feel free to comment on our posts and we will be checking frequently.

Brian is also updating his Instagram account. Visit for near daily updates and life observations: https://instagram.com/b.tracy22/ We love you all so much! Thank you.