Strength in Numbers

So much of life is centered on community: family, friends, neighbors, people on the bus, etc. We are constantly forced, and also choose, to interact with others. Brian and I are seeing the purpose and importance of this everyday as he works through treatment, and Brim grows bigger.

One of the attributes that most attracted me to Brian was his ability to build community. He throws dinner parties, inviting friends and neighbors, without worrying about the fact that the table only fit 6, or that we don't have enough plates. He will learn a new sport, and instead of dabbling in the hobby, he jumps all in with competitions, gear and training, and doesn’t hold back from bringing people with him and making new and lasting friends. With calm confidence, Brian marched his way straight into my heart, and I’ve seen him do it with countless others. We both have benefited from this attribute with the amazing friends and close family connections that we have.

Recently, we’ve been able (with the support of family) to travel to be with our families.  We spent the 4th of July weekend in Chicago, saying goodbye to Brian’s childhood home (because Marla is selling it) and hello to friends and family who needed to “lay some eyes on us.” We felt so loved.The following weekend, we flew into the Redmond Airport to spend a couple of days at Cultus Lake - the favorite Bennett vacation. We got to spend quality time with the village that raised me. It felt so good to be in a space that is a home away from home, and to reconnect with close friends and family.

Here at home, our community feels stronger than ever. In short amounts of time, you have all raised over $7,000 in Be Positive T-Shirts, and raised money to pay for a two-person outrigger canoe. The inspiring and supportive comments on these websites fill us with hope and love each day. This push to be positive truly seems to be the key to managing cancer treatments and difficult times. People continue to remind us of this as we meet others going through treatments at the proton center, and from friends and family who have survived cancer threats. 

After the seizure, Brian kept saying that if we put enough positivity out there, then that message will keep coming back to us as times get hard. This is what we’ve seen, and we cannot thank you enough for that. We’re learning to be okay with feeling crappy or tired, and to find the love and light in the little things during this gorgeous Seattle summer. We are grateful everyday for the community that we have around us. You are a comfort that continues to keep our spirits high as we start down the road of dealing with cancer and starting our family at the same time. We love you!